Monday, June 15, 2009

Why I don't kiss guys

Cold sores, obviously. Ok, I’m kidding, but I did have someone cite that as a reason to fear kissing people. But before I get going on more posts about getting a guy to kiss me, I figure at least some of you are thinking, “geez, calls herself a modern woman and she won’t make the first move.”

For the record, I have asked out plenty of guys. I have approached plenty of guys. I have been rejected by plenty of guys.  (Sidebar: Guys, quit telling us that we can have anyone we want. We can’t. We get turned down too.)

I noticed a trend after a while. Sometimes there’s a reason I’m doing all the work. Don’t make me say it. He’s just not that into me.  So I have to draw the line somewhere. I will do everything I possibly can to let the guy know that I’m an available for kissing, but I won’t kiss him first.

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