The post-date make out plan*

I got two very different points of view on this, so please feel free to share your experiences. In bemoaning my lack of getting to first base, a couple of friends chimed in on whether or not guys spend time strategizing to get me on the couch. Here are the highlights:

Friend (female and *originator of the phrase) – Guys are not in the habit of post-date make out planning and are basically pussies when it comes to making the first move.

Friend (male) – Guys always have some kind of plan in mind, the lazy ones just keep using the same one over and over while the more creative types mix it up a bit.

Me—I’ve been a victim of the lunge and grab more times than I care to count. So I don’t feel that post-date make out planning is all that common. But then I was called out once for changing the order of activities and ruining a guy’s post-date make out plan. And no one’s a bigger pussy about this stuff than I am.